Asking for Help
Asking for help can be hard. We get all kinds of messages that we should be strong, that we should deal with things ourselves or that we should accept what is happening to us because "that's life."
The truth is that many young people are living in situations that are not safe or healthy. Some are living with family members who abuse them physically, emotionally and sexually. Some are living with family or friends who do not have the money or the ability to support them long term. Some are living in boarding houses or other environments where they can be exploited and taken advantage of by people older than them. And some young people are living on the streets. Sometimes asking for help is the bravest thing you can do. We want you to know that when you ask, we're listening.
Whatever your circumstances, if you feel that you need help, you probably do. Reaching out for help can be difficult but we want you to know when you take this first step, we'll be listening. (see contact information below).
Here are what some of our clients have to say about asking for help:
"The reason I stopped talking and chose not to disclose mainly were because I felt that I had to be strong and deal with my own issues in order to keep the approval of others. I got the message that asking for help was wrong."
"Be brave and ask for help when you need it. People can't read our minds. Persevere. We can get through this. Life will get better, but it's a hard road."
"It is a process, (dealing with issues). I think what is the key is awareness that support is available. The earlier youth know that they don't have to suffer in silence, the earlier they can begin the process."
